When working with your sponsor during learning and working the steps and you have a problem or disagree with something. Do you talk to someone else about it or go directly to your sponsor?
In today, I go to my Al-Anon sponsor. I seldom hear back from my AA sponsor. In early recovery, I was so fearful of going back out I had co-sponsors in AA, a NA sponsor, an Al-Anon sponsor, and a Service Sponsor.
Always the sponsor first, we can agree to disagree, until I have an enlightenment and see things her way.
God is good indeed! I know a fellow who came into the program the same time as me and he was 19. He is still sober the same number of years that I am. Age has nothing to do with it. It is that willingness that I found that kept me here along with God's Grace which got me to the doors. He had the same NA sponsor as I did, a man in AA, who qualified for both programs.
He gives us freedom of choice. Once I found there was a solution, I chose to stay here.
