Self-sponsoring isn't a good thing. I needed this today, because I haven't called my sponsor too often. I forget that I am suppose to call her in the good times as well as the bad times. I forget that when I think of her, perhaps she needs a call and it isn't all about me. (written in May on another site)
This is why I picked up the phone and called my sponsor yesterday. When I did, I found that she need to talk too. Her husband`s sister passed away and he had to go to Scotland and she was alone for a week. I informed her that she should have called me, as I am a night person, because they were hard times for her.